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Breastfeeding Community of Practice

Posted by on January 1st, 2013 | 8 comments »

I sat down at 1pm AST today and I nursed my baby.  We didn’t make the news.

Though I was in a retail setting while feeding my baby I wasn’t at a nurse-in (nor was I asked to leave for doing so).

Though I run a small business and brought my child to work today I’m not the owner of an Italian restaurant (nor was I served a complaint by a health official).

I am closing out the year feeling blessed to raise my child in an uplifting environment encouraging of and nurturing in my relationship and care taking of my baby.  I live and work in Halifax Regional Municipality.

I fed my child at Nurtured today.

 

I fed him while customers were milling about boxing week specials and in my place of business.  I fed him in our breastfeeding friendly area, outfitted with signage and lounging furniture (including a specific armless chair purchased through a government grant in fact) in an area filled with resources for parenting (both breastfeeding and bottle feeding friendly mind you).   There is a plaque hanging nearby stating this place of business is a proud member of the Breastfeeding Community of Practice.  There is a sticker on the door with the international symbol for breastfeeding.  My customers and coworkers likely saw my chest.  The way my toddler feeds he likely exposed my breast.  Heck, he put his hand down my shirt.

I also fed him at the grocery store this week while I was buying eggs and again at the checkout.  We didn’t make the news then either or receive any complaints.

Yet twice in the span of a week two mothers in HRM and their breastfeeding babies made national news shining light on the discouragement of our province’s breastfeeding community.  In a recent opinion article by the Chronicle Herald’s Lezlie Lowe she cited the “wretched” 12% breastfeeding rate for babies in Nova Scotia still nursing after 6 months.

Indeed public places are also for babies  as we’ve seen in other media of 2012 and a message from our Minister of Health.

But are they for babies in HRM?  Lezlie Lowe’s article this past year questioned that. This week’s news questioned that.   If your jaw didn’t drop over the news this past week perhaps it did over the fact these mothers are still nursing their eight month olds.

Congratulations to Kendra-Ann and Hannah for continuing their breastfeeding relationship past our province’s “norm”.

Alas, that part didn’t make the news.

Nursing your baby at your place of business while clearing a table or in a busy retail setting while sitting down shouldn’t make people pause for questioning whether this is in or out of place, convenient, healthy or good for business. The past week’s unfortunate events wouldn’t have happened were we a true utopia of a breastfeeding community.  To contrast, Mongolian mothers will commonly lift their shirts, grab their breasts and wave them at their hungry child [from birth to 6 years and up].  I know this isn’t Mongolia nor do I particularly want it to be.  However, I do wish we supported women breastfeeding publicly as if they could unabashedly charade such intentions. Call me a lactivist. I wish all mothers could breastfeed.   I wish expecting and adoptive parents knew more about the possibilities of lactation. I wish there was a local milk bank. I wish someone higher and mightier than me would realize the health stats for mothers and children of our province would be better simply by an increase in our breastfeeding rates.   Rest assured you don’t have to be able to breastfeed to be pro-breastfeeding.

No matter what I wish, let’s agree in the new year a mother’s arms are the safest place for a baby to be.

I have a resolution for 2013 I’d like to suggest:

On the eve of a new year as a business owner, a breastfeeding mother, a member of the Breastfeeding Community of Practice and a resident of Nova Scotia, Canada,

I’m resolving to consider a child feeding or being comforted as a human right.  I hope you’ll try the same. I’d like to think Nova Scotians are ready for it.

Your baby or your neighbour’s baby  may not file taxes yet or vote, but he is the future of our province.  He’s a stat in the health, the educational well being and economic outlook of the province.  I don’t feel a sense of entitlement in pointing this out.  Frankly, I feel ignorant I didn’t put more weight into this fact any earlier.

I sat down at 1pm today and I nursed my baby.  So what?

I feel like the immediate community nurturing my breastfeeding relationship is newsworthy. Free drop-in breastfeeding support with Pampered Mamas Doula Services was at 1:30pm AST today at Nurtured. I met a brand new mother that I hope is well on her way to a great start after today’s meet up. Personally it’s fourteen months going strong; I’ve surpassed where I my first weaned. My child is healthy.  I’m healthy.  His immunity benefits in this second year of breastfeeding are now higher than those in the first.  My rates for developing breast cancer continue to lower.  I am privileged to bring him to work with me and I nurse him in plain view of my coworkers and customers without much thought, air of arrogance or complaint.

Generally I am caught off-guard by the community of well-wishers while I am nursing.  Let’s make that the news in 2013.  Let’s promote the health of our children and the support we receive from HRM and Nova Scotia.  Become a community cheering on breastfeeding goals be they learning a proper latch while still in hospital or just when your milk has come in, establishing a healthy supply during maternity leave or returning to work.  Continue a community of encouragement as you watch these babies reach milestones and live a healthy lively life well into adulthood and parenting their own tiny Nova Scotians.

For 2013 when you notice a mother feeding her child just walk on by or give her a thumbs up.

Happy new year.

Spirit of giving

Posted by on December 27th, 2012 | 0 comments »

The annual season of giving has past. We hope it left you feeling full of joy and abundantly blessed in your ability to delight another’s spirit.

One day not long ago an online order was placed  with a long note attached explaining it was a gift meant to brighten the day of a child at a local hospital.  We followed up with a phone call to inquire how else we could help.

The behind the scenes role was immensely enjoyed by those of us working that day.  The gifts were boxed up, the box was hand decorated and by the time we were done several of the items were peeking out through the tissue. The box was then finished off with a sheet of kite paper folded into an origami oracle.  The gift giver’s message was tucked inside. Later that day it was dropped off at the nurse’s station for the final transport to the child’s room.

The thank you the family shared with the gift giver was eventually relayed back to us.  Spirits were lifted in their challenging time and their child was enchanted with make believe and play instead of tests and treatments.  What was humbling for us at Nurtured was the gift giver had entrusted us with what was going to the child wasn’t harmful to their environment or a weakened immune system.

 

In sharing the story recently with another Nurtured customer he marveled at the idea and the potential energy behind it.  “I love it!  How do I buy a package for a rainy day?” he inquired.

I promised I’d take the initiative and begin a formal way to create giving to a child in need of a little brightening.   I thanked Glenn (last name witheld) for partaking in the  season of giving.  To that he responded, “it’s always time to give to children.”  Special thanks to Glenn who has become the first official donor to Nurtured’s first rainy day program.

We at Nurtured love kids and we know that kids sometimes need a little extra sunshine in their lives. We will be focusing our future fundraising efforts on keeping the Rainy Day program alive. A portion of every sale will go towards this fund and we will also be sharing our mission with suppliers and customers alike. Please click here for more details.

While our logo isn’t finished yet it is shaping up to look something like this. Many thanks to our graphic designer, Janet Murphy for creating this in support if the program. She is donating her fees to the cause.

 

To help kickstart this project and add to Glenn’s generous donation we are doing something special this week. Any toy purchased during our Boxing Week Sale will be cause for a donation by Nurtured to the Rainy Day Box program. Even though your child has probably received toys this Christmas remember that there are birthdays and special occasions coming. Not only do you save money by planning ahead but you are also giving another child an opportunity to smile on a day when they otherwise might not.

Thank you in advance for your kindness and generosity. You may just find that by giving to this worthwhile cause that you receive much more than you have ever given.

-Jolyn

 

 

 

Christmas Card ornament

Posted by on November 28th, 2012 | 0 comments »


Hand crafted Christmas ornaments anyone?

One of my favourite things to save and reuse are glass jars.  The next favourite thing is the lid to go with it…which if it isn’t needed to be used is always great for a craft or preschoolers tracing circles!

To obtain the right size for our current window display, my previously mentioned green collection (ahem) came in handy for tracing a few different jar lids.  The winner was a baby food jar.

Many of you locally were able to catch on to this simple festive craft as we put these together in shop (and we thank you for your help)!

As requested here’s a little tutorial just in time to spark some festive decorating!

Grab the following items:

  • Scissors

  • Pen or Pencil
  • Gluestick
  • 4 greeting card fronts

Note: If you’re really crafty, you can make yourself a storefront window display like we have. Send us a picture if you do!

The average card front will yield 6 cut outs.  This project requires 20 circles.

  • Begin by tracing the lid around (the prettiest) sections of the card.  Cut each circle out with scissors or paper punch.
  • You can fold the circles in half to mark the middle and then unfold to have a crease for following where to begin your next fold.  If this confuses you, skip to the next step and throw perfection out the window.
  • Begin to fold the circle in so you end up with a triangle with 3 flaps turned up.
  • Gather together 5 of your favourites and glue the flaps  so they intersect like 5 slices of pie.  Continue to do so until each corner also has 5 pieces fit together.
  • Thread a piece of yarn through the ornament or hole punch to hang. Several of these also create an eye catching garland or festive banner!

Stop by the shop to see our classic homemade Christmas window and possibly spy a few things to put under the tree too!

 

 

 

 

the handmade secret

Posted by on February 19th, 2012 | 0 comments »

While attending a birthday party recently with my son, a 5-year-old boy excitedly glanced over at me as the birthday girl was beginning to open her presents.  He asked if he could tell me a secret. I leaned over at the ready.

I know what gift she’s going to open,” he proudly declared.

It’s puppets.  And you know what?”

I shook my head.

I made them!”

I smiled. “She’s going to love those!” I whispered back. “Do you know why?”

It was the boy’s turn to shake his head as I told him,  “Handmade presents are the best presents ever.”

 

He already knew that.  I really should have handed him my card.

As I watched the kids’ flurry of excitement over opening gifts I found I too was eagerly awaiting this child’s handmade gift being opened.

It’s the same way I feel sourcing products at Nurtured: A handmade item is so carefully crafted, so proudly made to impress, it’s sole purpose is to be used and to be loved.  I know you’re going to enjoy giving or receiving them.

It’s a honour to fill our shop with many handmade products.
The next time you’re at Nurtured, ask to see some of these specialty products from local Canadian companies to fair trade partnerships.

It’s no secret, we’re just as proud to share these as if we made them ourselves!

 

 

Top 10 Reasons to find your Christmas gifts at Nurtured

Posted by on November 19th, 2011 | 2 comments »

The music this time of year certainly cues the holiday season is upon us, subliminally calling to embrace the season, trim the tree and wrap up thoughtful gifts for our loved ones.

“It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas, toys in every store…” so goes the verse in the ever popular Christmas tune.

Everywhere you look you”ll see boxes of toys at eye-level tempting those naughty and nice to add it to the wish list.  Like some parents, you might cringe over the plethora of items Santa could choose to fill your home with.

Not to worry.

While Santa and his elves are sourcing what to pack in their sleigh over the next five weeks, Nurtured is sure to be visited for choosing the quality gifts that will delight your family and last for years to come.  Now, we admit we’re quite biased, but we think know our selection of toys (and practical books, hats and mittens) is pretty magical this year.

 

Here’s our Top 10 list for shopping at Nurtured this holiday.

You might care to share it with the jolly ol’ bearded man himself.

 

1.) Hand-picked selection of products (Canadian and North American included!)

2.) Minimum to no assembly required

3.) Batteries need not be included!

4.) Simply pleasing, not overstimulating

5.) Quality- won’t break!!

6.) Minimal packaging

7.) No questionable materials used

8.) No plastics = eco-savvy

9.) Encourages role play, imagination, creativity

10.) No logos or mascots

Thank you for everything

Posted by on July 7th, 2011 | 9 comments »

Over two years ago I joined April MacKinnon on her quest to improve the lives of families and to make babies healthier. I’d been a customer of hers since my son was born in late 2007, and she was one of my “Mommy Mentors”- someone that I looked up to and trusted.  She opened the store with me by her side, and I continued to be her right-hand woman until she sold the store in March 2011.  She was able to collect a wonderful group of women to help grow the store and everyone worked together to find products that you, our loyal customers, wanted to buy. More than that, all of us worked hard to develop a COMMUNITY for you, a place where you could come and talk about anything you wanted to (and boy, did you ever!).  There was hardly a day that went by that we didn’t talk about how much we loved the fact that you would come to us and talk about your birth experience, your breastfeeding struggles and successes, and even more intimate things. We were always willing to listen, to comfort, and to let you know that we had been there too, and that it was going to get better.

I have learned so much from you; lessons I’d never otherwise have learned, and I can’t thank you enough. We all try our best to make the right decisions for our families, especially for our babies, and it was you who showed me, loud and clear, that I don’t know it all, and that the choices I made for my son are ones that you may not have made for your children, and that’s okay. Sometimes it feels like we’re all walking around with blindfolds on, not knowing up from down, and the only advice I have to give you is to follow your instincts.

Along with the customers who’ve allowed me into their lives, I have found a sisterhood among the staff (past and present) at Nurtured. We were all brought together out of our desire to help people, to change lives, even if it’s something small as cloth diapers. I’ve been lucky enough to get to know people I never would have otherwise met, and I love them all despite our differences. Our hearts have always been with Nurtured and the people we meet because of it.

I’ve never had a job that I’ve cared this much about, that I’ve looked forward to going to every day, that I’ve had so much passion for.  It’s because of you- each one of you who have allowed me to teach you about cloth diapers or carriers, who’ve sat around and spoken to me for hours, who trust me to help you choose healthy alternatives for the ones you love the most. You are the community that we worked so hard to build. Thank you for making our dreams come true.

We all come to crossroads in our lives though, and this is one of mine.  There wasn’t a day that went by that I didn’t feel some “Mom Guilt” for being away from my son (who was 18 months old when the store first opened, and is now nearly four years old), despite me completely loving my job.  I would like to spend more time with him. I’d also like to focus on growing my own business, Pip Robins, and so that’s what I’ve decided to do, at least for a while.

Thank you so much for answering 300+ of my Parenting Questions of the Day, talking to me about your life and asking my advice because you trust me. Thank you for supporting local, for contributing to the growth of the business and making sustainable choices for your family. I will miss you all incredibly- coworkers and customers. I look forward to seeing Nurtured continue changing people’s lives for the better.

If you see me at the playground or around Halifax, please keep saying hello!  If you want to keep in touch, I can be reached via email, pip AT piprobins.com, or through the Volunteer Doula Program at the Chebucto Family Center. Thank you for everything!

Gillian Hyde

 

 

Thanks for the warm welcome! Hello!

Posted by on March 9th, 2011 | 0 comments »

In 2005 I was pregnant, had just moved to a new community, was newly married, and new to staying at home.  Thankfully pregnancy allowed me some time in which to read and learn to adapt to my new role. Although I had a new life growing inside of me and opportunity for new experiences around me, I felt alone and isolated. In those early months most women turn to their family and friends, of which I had none close by. In the end, I relied on doing the best I could with the resources I found…and I learned a lot! (In retrospect, I still wish I had a practice run!)

As a woman I am proud to say I am a daughter, a sister and a friend to a community of mothers whom I respect. Part way through my pregnancy I realized I needed to reach out and ask for advice. This allowed me the insight I needed to sift the information I had read into ideas on how I would parent.  Motherhood quickly became a ticket to listening and sharing experiences within a parenting community I hadn’t realized existed. Luckily, for me, the communities we build as parents allow us to learn from each other and evaluate what works (and what doesn’t).

The last five years of parenting have boiled down to a few simple rules I fall back on:
1. Ask questions and keep asking them until the answer resonates within you
2. Trust your instincts
3. Keep it simple
4. Pat yourself on the back for your efforts

In 2010 my husband had an opportunity to become a stay-at-home dad. He became more involved in the daily parenting of our son. Our child is in no way, shape or form (or behaviour) perfect, but we narrowed the gap of parenting our child together. It was a turning point I will always be grateful we came to and one that widely impacted our decision to look at Nurtured for 2011.
When we learned of the opportunity to become the new owners of Nurtured, everything came down to the “fit”. For us, this transfer of ownership allowed the opportunity we had sought out for years to move “home”, be near family and be a part of an amazing community outreach.

The last few weeks have had me laughing at how circumstances create opportunity. Just as April was beginning a new business in 2006, I was finding the ground to stand on! April is an amazing woman (have you seen how pregnant she is right now?!) and has certainly left big shoes for me to fill. I am so grateful for the life experiences that have led me to where I am at today. I am also thankful to have April’s blessing to now steer what she began as an outreach and resource to her local community. She will always be integral to the foundation of what Nurtured is and what you see at Nurtured on Robie Street and www.nurtured.ca.

I look forward to meeting you as a customer, a fellow parent and friend, and continuing to provide this resource along with an amazing team of parenting enthusiasts who can say, “I’ve been there”.

Welcome, and Goodbye

Posted by on March 6th, 2011 | 12 comments »

In 2005 I was a new mom cloth diapering a tiny baby and feeling very isolated from my existing friends and was having a hard time connecting with new ones. I had faced significant challenges with breastfeeding and didn’t know anyone who could relate to my situation. I started thinking about the path of my life, the impact of every choice I made for my little girl on the world around me, and how I could use the information I learned as an engineer to connect with other parents who, like me, wanted to make a difference for their children, and for our environment.

By April 2006, Nurtured was born. Those first few months were full of planning, research, ordering, building and learning a whole new world of retail and e-commerce. The original Nurtured Products for Parenting website launched in August 2006 and was supported by friends, family, and a few loyal local customers. In those early months I met many women with whom I instantly shared a connection and who have become life long friends. At this time, I was pregnant with my now four-year-old and looking forward to making Nurtured my new career.

Through “word of mom” and networking opportunities locally, Nurtured hit critical mass in the spring of 2007 with a sudden upsurge in growth, which coincided with the birth of my son. Those early months were challenging, and I burned the midnight oil building a business between feeding an infant for weeks and months on end. I also participated in the “My Fair Baby” shows hosted by the Midwifery Coalition, gave cloth diaper workshops throughout HRM at yoga studios, stores owned by friends and acquaintances, and in my own home on a weekly basis. Babywearing workshops followed, initially in collaboration with my friend Tory at her (now closed) shop, Next In Line, and then, after an invitation from local doula Robyn Berman, at Uncommon Kids in Halifax and Pillars of Health in Dartmouth.

In 2008 another customer became not only one of my best friends but Nurtured’s first part-time employee when Becky Keen joined the Nurtured team one or two days a week. This was following a significant home renovation to move Nurtured from my dining room table to the basement. By the end of 2008, Nurtured had won the SavvyMom Mom Entrepreneur of the Year Award for Atlantic Canada, was still growing very quickly, and it was evident that Nurtured had outgrown its home-based location. That Fall, a lease was signed for our Halifax location.

With many late nights renovating, tag-teaming with my husband while we set up shelving and juggled child care, the Nurtured store opened on April 1, 2009 with a staff of four: Gillian (now Manager), Karen, Annie, and myself. This was incredibly rewarding but also took its toll as I was working 6 days (and sometimes nights) to get the business up and running. I can never thank Gillian, Karen, and Annie enough for their help in those early days.

2009 truly left its mark on me as a business person with the media attention we gained for opening a boutique store in the middle of a global financial recession, and for the legitimization moving to a retail store provided for the Nurtured brand. I also acquired Anointment Natural Skin Care from Anastasia Manolakos, a favourite of mine and MANY others from the Halifax Farmer’s Market, and began working on improvements and marketing strategies Anointment products, which stood out to me for their natural ingredients, lack of unnecessary “stuff” and high quality.

In 2010 Nurtured won the Small Business of the Year Award (Silver) presented by the Halifax Chamber of Commerce, was nominated in the Better Business Bureau Ethics Awards, Was 2nd Best Eco-Conscious Business in Halifax as voted by the readers of The Coast magazine, grew from a staff of four to a staff of eight, and essentially outgrew our retail store. I am very proud of all these accomplishments.

Also in 2010, I learned we were expecting our third child and both my father and my husband’s mother suffered significant health issues. With reality setting in of having a child in school, one in pre-school and an infant, we were faced with some difficult decisions. Having worked so hard while my son was a baby to build this business and the resulting burn out it caused, I had to consider carefully if this was the path my family wanted to continue to follow. My husband was also provided with the opportunity to transfer his job to another office, which would allow us to move closer to both of our extended families. With a deep breath and a lot of discussion, we decided it was time to let someone with fresh eyes build Nurtured while we cheer and watch from the sidelines.

The search for a buyer began and concluded with a lovely husband-and-wife team, Eric and Jolyn Swain along with their five-year-old son. Eric is a Nova Scotian who was longing to come home, and Jolyn, with a business background and a birth and post-partum story not unlike my own, was very excited to be part of a business with such a strong sense of environmental ethics and community. I have been working with Jolyn for some time now and I am very impressed with her knowledge, kindness, and desire to continue the community that Nurtured has become.

Over the next few weeks you will see Jolyn and I together frequently as she learns the fine details of what makes Nurtured tick. Of utmost importance to me was that the staff also be retained, and I’m happy to say that Gillian, Karen, Simone, Sarah, Jessica and Melissa will remain at the store, so you can be sure that the customer service you have been accustomed to will continue.

Jolyn has many fantastic ideas for making the great things about Nurtured even greater, and the team will remain strong and focused on the natural parenting ideals that makes Nurtured special.

I have experienced a lot of emotions over this huge change in my life, but I can say with confidence that you are all in very good hands. I will still be a regular at the store as I deliver my third baby sometime in the next three or so weeks, and I will be working away on Anointment over the years to come.

I want to thank each and every single person who has shopped in the store, come to a workshop, attended a breastfeeding support group, picked up a card for a local doula, asked for help, advice or just wanting to hear a “I’ve been there, this too shall pass”, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Nurtured is very special to me: like one of my own children, and it is my sincere wish that the Nurtured community will welcome Jolyn to the Nurtured family with open arms.

Cheers to the great circle of natural parenting enthusiasm we have all built together, thank you for allowing me to be part of it, as I will continue to be from the sidelines of my Anointment workshop, the soccer field, or wherever life takes me as I take some time to focus on my children and my family.

With love and gratitude,
April

Nurtured Winners

Posted by on September 22nd, 2010 | 0 comments »

Thank you to all who voted and responded with such positive comments, we appreciate all of your efforts and continued support.

As promised, we’re giving away 2 $50 gift certificates to those who posted on our blog. I decided to give away one to blog posters, and another to those on our Facebook page who also responded that they voted.

The two winners are:

Erika
original comment:
Hi!
Just did it!
You guys really deserve it!

and

Jen Campbell (from Facebook)
original comment:
voted!

Thanks everyone, please send me an email with your contact information, I can either leave the gift certificate at the store for pick up, mail it to you, or if you are a mail order customer, I will create an online discount code for you.

Wish us luck!

-April

Breastfeeding 101 with Robyn Berman

Posted by on September 17th, 2010 | 0 comments »

Breastfeeding 101

Are you pregnant and exploring the idea of breastfeeding your baby? Robyn Berman invites you to join us for informative and interactive breastfeeding education. You will walk away feeling empowered and full of information as you prepare for this unique yet sometimes challenging relationship with your new baby. Robyn will cover all of the basics, including: which books are helpful (and which are not!), how to achieve the best latch, common challenges and how to overcome them, local community resources, and so much more.

Tuesday October 5th, 2010

6:30 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.

Nurtured

Cost: $45 +tax single or couple
PLEASE REGISTER IN ADVANCE
2571 Robie Street
(902)405-4367

www.nurtured.ca

Light refreshments will be served
Please bring a newborn size doll or stuffed animal

This workshop will be facilitated by Robyn Berman CD(DONA), CD(DONA). To find out more about Robyn visit www.halifaxdoula.com.